Showing posts with label Elizabeth. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Elizabeth. Show all posts

Monday, December 15, 2008

Elizabeth

Elizabeth and I were best friends in high school and have remained friends ever since. She and her 2 daughters came to visit me for the weekend and we had so much fun catching up! We've always said that no matter how much time passes between visits, phone calls, and emails we can always pick up where we left off and we never run out of things to talk about. I always enjoy our time together and it's always over much too soon.

Sunday, just before she and the girls headed back home we stopped at a cabin in town so I could take some portraits of her daughter Alysa. Of course we also snapped lots of other photos while we were at it.

The last time Elizabeth and I had portraits taken together, our mutual friend Steve took them...almost 20 years ago! So Steve, these are for you. Steve told me he still has the photo of she and I on the caboose sitting on his computer. We just look a LITTLE bit different now, don't we Steve?!

Elizabeth, I'm so glad we got to spend some time together and I love opportunities to get to know your girls. They are remarkable young ladies!



Alysa and Karen--2 of the sweetest girls I know!
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Sisters being silly
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Elizabeth with her girls
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This one's one of my favorites. This is how they are all the time and you can just see how much they love each other and how much fun they have together!
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Elizabeth and me....now
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....and 2o years ago.
20 years and teenagers can change you lots!
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Heather insisted I stand RIGHT here and let her take a photo. I don't like being on this side of the camera but I cooperated.
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our 17 year old daughters. (Elizabeth, I'm SURE we were just 17 ourselves just last year!!!!)
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My family.
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Friday, February 22, 2008

Elizabeth

Although we only live 5 hours apart, it's been 2, if not 3 years since we've seen one another! Elizabeth and I became best friends quickly after we met during our senior year in high school (1988-1989), and we were INSEPERABLE! We were together constantly: during school, after school, at work, on weekends...she was just another member of my family. Although Dad always made her nervous, my parents just welcomed her as one of their own. My youngest brother and sister Levi and Lacey were pretty small that year, and adored her as well, especially Lacey. When I called Lacey this morning I told her "Guess who I'm going to see tonight?" She was almost as excited as me when I told her I'd get to see Elizabeth. One of my favorite photos was taken the night Elizabeth and I graduated high school. It's of both of us in our red caps and gowns and Levi and Lacey are in the photo with us. I'd post it if I could find it!









When I moved to Arizona after graduation it was Elizabeth I missed as much as I missed my family. Elizabeth was the friend who made sure I had a calling card so I could call her as often as I needed to while I was away. She's the one who made sure I got home that first Christmas away. She and a friend drove all the way to Phoenix to pick up my roommate and me and drive us all the way back to Missouri. Elizabeth is the one whose house I could go, any time day or night and always be welcomed no matter what. There were even nights when as a teenager I knew my heart was just breaking in two and I could knock on her window and she'd get up, come let me in and we'd talk all night.









Gosh Elizabeth, who knew we could pack so many memories into that one year?! The first auto accident I was ever in was with her in her mom's car. The first time I had my car airborn, Elizabeth was with me. Elizabeth do you remember that? I'd almost forgotten that one until my latest trip back to Missouri and Marty and I drove that same road and I remembered and shared with him. She was almost always with me any time I cruised through town. Oh the miles we must have skated round and round at Skateland, the miles we cruised Porter Wagoner Blvd, the hours we've spent talking , crying and laughing together, the nights we spent talking all night sitting on the pavement in front of KFC or on the hood of my car in front of Hardee's. Remember McDonaldland Cookies and Grape Soda???









Elizabeth was in San Antonio this week for a conference for work. Marty and I drove over tonight to meet her at the RiverWalk to hang out for the evening. The time went by much too quickly! What fun I had catching up, if even for a short while. Can you believe our girls are almost the age we were when we met? I don't think I have a single senior year memory that you aren't in! :0) I thank God for you and what you've meant to me the past 20 years!






Elizabeth and me waiting for our dinner at Joe's Crab Shack.







Our waiter put a bib on Marty before his dinner arrived!






Elizabeth in front of the Alamo doors.






the Alamo








Elizabeth and me along the RiverWalk






Just outside the RiverCenter Mall, after enjoying our Starbucks Coffee break!









Elizabeth, I'm so glad we got to spend the evening together. Hope to see you in Fredericksburg at the end of March!!! Love ya bunches!!!










Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Goodbye Skateland, Icon of My Teen Years

Ok so this post may get me nominated for "Dork of the Year," but I have to do it! When I went to Missouri I was saddened to see the closed sign and especially the "For Sale" sign in front of the town's skating rink. We'd always at least stop in to say hello when we're in town, and sometimes even go roller skating...and yes we took our skates with us to Missouri.

Skateland was my first job (aside from babysitting of course). It was a long time before I could convince my mom to let me get a job. We lived way out in the country and I had no car and relied on Mom for transportation. But when my best friend Elizabeth told me there was an opening at Skateland (where she also worked) at the snackbar, I begged Mom to let me apply. She agreed and I landed my first job. I was so excited and I LOVED working there. The managers Harry and Veronica were great and I got along with them beautifully. It was the beginning of my senior year in high school and Mom continued to take me back and forth to work the 10 or so hours a week I worked until March when I finally bought a car of my own.

When Elizabeth and I weren't working, we could usually be found at the skating rink. There wasn't much to do in West Plains, and apparently there still isn't. We'd skate or dance, then hit the cruise strip (Porter Wagoner Blvd.) and drive up and down, or park the car in front of Hardee's and sit on it and chat with other friends doing the same thing. Other regulars at the skating rink included our buddies Kenny, Kelly, Ivy and sometimes a few others.

Several years ago when Marty and I first moved back to West Plains and I went to work for a company coloring comic books I discovered my buddy Kenny worked there too. Then a few years after that he bought the skating rink and Kelly could always be found there too. Tuesday nights we'd all go skating and they'd play music from the days when we were younger and mostly adults would show up those nights. We didn't have to worry about as many kids to fall over then!!! If Heather had dance on Tuesdays, Marty and I would drop her off and go skating with friends while she had class. A couple of times when Elizabeth was in town, she'd go with me for old time's sake. Talk about reliving your childhood! But what fun we all had. None of us cared if we were dorks. We were all doing something we enjoyed.

Because the skating rink was closed I couldn't drop in on Kenny and Kelly this time. Couldn't give them a hard time and tell them how old they're looking!


I look at my hometown's newspaper website almost every day. Tonight when I was browsing, there is a story about the skating rink closing. This is copied from the Daily Quill's website from today:





Rolling into history Skateland closes;
West Plains Bank buys building

BY MELISSA McENTIREQuill Staff Writer

“There isn’t a lot to do here except go to the movies. It was fun to go there and skate and dance,” said Wade Kelly, 17, West Plains, of Skateland on U.S. 160, just west of the local Wal-Mart.The roller-skating rink that had been open for business for decades closed Dec. 16, the building now sold.Kelly said he had been going there for eight or nine years, adding, “Now I’m kind of mad because I really don’t have anything to do now. I went to Skateland every Friday and Saturday night.’’ He said he’s tried skateboarding as an alternative, but isn’t a big fan of it.Skateland had been on a roll for 25 years, Kenny Coughlin and his wife, Caroline, owning it for the past eight years. Kenny told The Quill he had two reasons for closing the rink. First, his other business, Fishland, that had been at Skateland, recently moved to 205 St. Louis St., and is taking up more of his time. Second, attendance at Skateland has dropped off dramatically.Kenny Coughlin said the pet store has grown into a seven-day-a-week job. “We’ve tripled our size by moving here. We have about 5,000 fish, about 800 rodents and reptiles, plus birds here we have to feed every day, regardless if we are open or not.”Of Skateland, he said, “Schools and churches had stopped bringing their groups to the rink, which was a lot of business lost. We had regulars on weekends, but it just wasn’t enough to keep it open.’’And, renovations and more activities didn’t draw more skaters, he said.“I hate that it closed. I am really going to miss the kids, plus Skateland has been a part of my life for 15 years.”Coughlin was a disc jockey at Skateland as a teenager in the 1980s. Ten years ago he was approached to manage the rink. Two years later he bought it.When he and his wife put the skating rink up for sale they tried unsuccessfully to find a buyer who would continue the business, he said.“We had all kinds of interested people look at it, but in the end no one could come up with the money for it (to stay a roller rink),” he said.West Plains Bank and Trust Co. has bought the rink and plans to eventually build a bank there, according to President and CEO David Gohn.“We don’t have a specific date on when that may happen, but probably not before the spring,” Gohn told The Quill.“As of right now, we do not plan on keeping it open as a skating rink. However, we may donate the building to a charity when the time comes to build,” Gohn said.“I feel sorry for the younger kids who will never have a chance to skate there,” said Wade’s mother, Melody Kelly.“There are not enough activities for kids to do here, and people wonder why they get bored and get into trouble,” she said.“Skateland was a place I knew I could drop my kids off and know that they would be safe.”Coughlin knows this, and he sympathizes, but is comfortable with the decision he’s made.As for Wade Kelly, he said, “I guess I’ll just hang around the house or go to the movies.”
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My first reaction to the story (since I already knew it was closed and all)...I have a blog post!!!! I dug out some old pictures to scan. They were taken in a dark skating rink with a terrible camera so keep that in mind! Most of them were taken on a night the whole gang got together either to tell me goodbye before I moved to Arizona, or the first time I went back home during a break from school (I can't remember which!).


Elizabeth, these will certainly take you back in time!!! :0)



Meet Kelly. He was a regular fixture at Skateland and yes, he knows he looks like Weird Al. His awesome Corvette made up for it though! ha ha






This is Kenny. Kenny was sadly the last owner of Skateland. And the last time I saw him, he still looked exactly the same!







This is Ivy. He could be found at the skating rink almost as often as Kenny and Kelly.








Harry. My first boss, peeking through the ticket window.






One of the dj's, John.





Elizabeth and I being goofy on the rink's dance floor. We spent as much time on the dance floor as we did skating.





Richard. (not the creepy Richard...another Richard!)



Elizabeth.




What fun we all had together. Goodbye Skateland. I guess we all have to grow up sometime.



Sunday, September 9, 2007

Elizabeth

Elizabeth was my best friend in high school and we have remained friends ever since. We met our senior year in Journalism class. We became partners in ad-selling for the school newspaper. Elizabeth is the one I told all my secrets to, the one I felt most accepted who I was and loved me anyway.

The first car accident I ever experienced was with Elizabeth. We were in Journalism, out selling ads when she rear-ended a pick up in her Mom's car. I put spider web looking cracks in the windshield with my head, but barely had a bump to show for it. No one was hurt but I think her mom's car was shortened by 18 inches!

Early that school year we both worked at the snack bar at "Skateland"....my first job (not counting babysitting). When we weren't working there we were hanging out there with a group of friends or cruising the main drag (Porter Wagoner Blvd.) or sitting on someone's car along the strip chatting the night away. By the end of our senior year we'd moved on to other jobs -- she at Kentucky Fried Chicken and I went to work at McDonald's across the street and also continued working at the skating rink. We both began working the late shift closing the restaurants and then would head out together before going home. I had the biggest crush on a guy she worked with who drove a motorcycle, Lowell. He was tall, dark and sooo cute. But, Elizabeth liked him too I soon found out so I never said a word. Soon after Elizabeth and Lowell began to date and dated until after he went to college in Branson the next fall. The three of us used to hang out a lot, mostly sitting on the ground in front of KFC talking all night long.

Before I moved to Arizona for school our friend Steve took these pictures for us. We look so young and so.....eightys! I remember Steve being so disappointed when we showed up for the pictures that we weren't dressed up. But this was us. We were tshirt and jeans girls.






Summer, 1989

After I moved to Arizona Elizabeth began dating a guy named Robert. I couldn't afford to go home for Christmas and neither could my room mate Dar, who was also from Missouri. So, Elizabeth and Robert drove all the way to Phoenix to pick us up so we could go home for Christmas!!!! Elizabeth is the only person to come see my apartment in Arizona. Robert got a speeding ticket somewhere in Texas and it was snowing when we hit the Missouri state line. Dar's family met us in West Plains to take her on to Salem and Elizabeth took me to Mom's house. We went to the skating rink to go dancing for old time's sake and had an awesome time catching up again. Elizabeth had arranged for a bunch of our friends to meet us there so I could see them all while I was home. Dar and I flew back to Phoenix and rung in the new year unpacking and crying because we both wanted to be back in Missouri.

A lot of years and miles have become between Elizabeth and me, but we still keep in touch, mostly via email. We are both in Texas now (what are the odds???), but about 5 hours apart so still rarely get together. We are hoping soon to be able to spend some time together, probably meeting half way and wandering around Fredericksburg for a day or two. Won't that be a hardship???!!!

My dad once told me to hang onto the friendship I share with Elizabeth, that she's one of a kind and that kind of friendship doesn't come around all that often. He told me that when she drove 2 hours to attend an anniversary celebration for my parents when Dad was sick. He was so touched that she came. Thank you, Elizabeth, for all that you have meant to me for so many years!

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